alacaliwest
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Get the DNA proof and fax it to your VA's office right away and let them know that this isn't your child after all and that you want it stopped! They actually should make her pay back the amount that she's received from April of this year (when you found out this child wasn't yours) until now since she knew it wasn't yours and you have proof of it! |
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commandwolf0999
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I would bring the DNA test to court and explain the situation. If what your saying is true the courts will stop it. If the kid isn't yours though she can have the child not see you. |
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Andy
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The courts are inconsistent, and often irrational, on this issue. The reason is that virtually the sole issue for consideration is "the best interests of the child", which invariably mean the court getting your money for the child. If the issue of paternity has not been finally determined by a court it may be possible to use the DNA facts, and it may be possible to annul the support decree. The fact that you were married to her and that the husband of the mother is generally deemed to be the father (whatever the facts), make this more difficult. From your standpoint the best strategy is to locate the real father and have him voluntarily accept paternity.
What happened to you has happened (other than the VA part) for millennia. This is fraud, and I only wish there were some way to get society and the courts to do something about it. But unfortunately not only can't society protect people (suckers) from being victimized, society tends to blame the victim. You. |
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still learning at 54
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appeal and get the judgement overturned. also see if you can be reimbursed at all. you might even be able to get money back by procecuting on grounds of fraud (that is a serious offense and she knew the child was not yours). as the child is not yours you can get all those benefits being paid to her and the child overturned as well. call the VA asap and talk to them about the situation too giving them proof. they may decide to prosecute as well since she was ripping them off too. |
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donnabbb43
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Take those DNA results to a lawyer and have those payments stopped. She may even have to reimburse you and the VA. She is in trouble if she defrauded the gov't of any of your benefits. |
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garysoliman
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Hi I'm Garry,
appeal it, take it back to court and ask them:THE COURT" for a DNA test to prove it's not yours.. As easy as that.. insist on a DNA test with you appeal in court though make sure you've got a good lawyer!
Simply wishing you the best of luck,
Garry |
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stargazer 100
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LOOK YOU NEED TO get that test results back to the office. SHE MAY OAU YOU MONEYS Back |
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Jessica
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If the court has already ordered you to pay child support then you are stuck making the payments. They don't want to change status quo. I think it's wrong though. |
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Mona
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The VA will not terminate the wage garnishment unless they receive a court order signed by the judge stating child support and order is vacated!
I dont know what state you reside but you should contact the courts, (in NJ it will be family court) and file for a motion to terminate child support as child is not yours -(as per DNA exam) Im not entirely sure wether your test is admissible but IF it isnt they will ask you to take the test again.... Contact your case worker or supervisor ASAP and file for the motion- The sooner it gets done the sooner the VA will recieve the wage garnishment termination letter! ----------After all this is taken care of then u can take her to court to get reimbursed for all the money you gave her! Good Luck! |
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jason
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she is absolutely taking advantage of you. You need to take her to court as soon as posible, with dna evidence you will be clear and free completely. |
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John F
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The laws vary from state to state, it depends upon Virginia's. Keep in mind, however, that the state is not very compassionate about those things. It keeps the lie about "the best interests of the child" so it can ignore things like due process and the truth, and so on and so forth. Check with a lawyer. |
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DL
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You need to hire an attorney to sort that mess out. |
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King H
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Take her to court and tell the V.A. to stop the support. As long as you have the proof you'll be ok. You may be able to get past payouts as well. |
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ilovecarebears
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go get a lawyer & go to court, u could possably get your money back! |
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Ana
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If you have a DNA test proving you're not the father, all you need is the paper the proof is written on. Take it to the VA. Or, contact a family lawyer. Good luck. |
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John Z
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It is a crime. It's called fraud. Write down the facts, consult with the VA legal services. Also, do not let your emotions get the best of you. If you do, know one will help you. Good Luck. |
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