Pojo
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Tell him you are facing a financial crunch and can no longer afford his food and money issues and you would appreciate him realizing this. |
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Simon S
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Apart from not answering the door to him - I would apologise and explain that you do not have any surplus food/ money to lend at the moment. After several(probably) rejections he may get the message that you are no longer a soft touch |
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Jan409
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Tell him ,sorry you have nothing to spare
you have just received a huge
bill for something ,and all your money is needed to pay it |
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susie x ♥♥♥
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You have to be strong and say NO, There is no other way. He sees you as a meal ticket and will continue to do so until you stop. |
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H
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leave your money in the bank and ask him to stop scrounging off you, you cannot help him (or his cat) any more. He is taking advantage of your kind nature, put a stop to it. Print out all the answers on here and give them to him ? |
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Laissez-Faire Guy
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I think it was Ann Landers that used to say something like "People can't walk all over you unless you let them."
Stand up for yourself. Next time he needs some, tell him "I'm sorry, but I have none to spare right now." Another good option would be to find out where a local food bank or soup kitchen is, and then the next time he asks, tell him, "I'm sorry I can't right now, but here's a food bank / soup kitchen that can help you." |
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lnknprkbabe84
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just be firm and tell him you dont have the money to do it, as you have to provide yourself with food etc, and if i were you i would report him for having the cat, if he cant feed her he shouldnt have her |
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harry
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just tell him no more help as you cannot afford it |
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nosdda
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Tell him in a nice way that you need your money for gas and electric bills as well as food and you are finding it difficult to make ends meet. If that doesn't work, just don't answer the door to him. |
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Harry C
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Feed the cat and say no to him . |
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Veronika
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just tell him to GO AWAY... |
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Peter W
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apart from the obvious answer of telling him to ***********
try asking to borrow some money from him as you are now short yourself.. |
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WelshLad
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Tell him you cannot afford to do this anymore, you are tightening your belt. He know s you are nice and is taking advantage of the situation. |
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Lily B Talus
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don not help him out, you do not get benefits to support someone else, report him to the R.S.P.C.A. for not caring about his cat. |
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Shannon M
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Explain, nicely, that your money is limited. That's all you can do. If he persists then you may have to get rude. |
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Margaret S
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Start doing it to him. Ask if he can lend you a cup of sugar or some cat food etc etc. Tell him you have nothing spare and need whatever. He will soon stop asking you. If you really want to feed his cat then do it when you see it around. |
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starlight
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just say no, you havent got the money to lend him or the food to let him have. its sad but if he cannot afford to keep the pets they should go to a shelter, theyre not your responsability neither is he |
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fitwelsh17
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Ring the RSPCA and tell them they will find the cat a good home and they wont say who called them and tell him that your money has been reduced so you are unable to keep feeding him as it has affected you alot and you have to cut back. If you let him walk all over you and take advantage then he will, PLEASE STOP IT IT ISNT FAIR ON U!!!!!!!! |
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