Not an Enabler
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I don't know if I deserve it or not, but here is my situation. In September 2010, my sisters husband filed for divorce and she had no money or credit to get an attorney. She was married for 20 years. My parents could not/would not help her. I have excellent credit, so I loaned her $2000 for an attorney, which is part of my debt problem. I am currently disabled but I always helped others financially. It has cost me approximately $10,000 in credit card debt, by feeling sorry for others and trying my best to help them out. I don't know what to do anymore. I do know that I have been an enabler, as everyone in my family comes to me with their money troubles. I have finally started saying NO to them. It's hard to do that, but I know I have to, to save my own credit, life, and marriage. I have been fortunate to never have ever, in the past, had to ask anyone for financial help. But now, I am in need. I am getting to the point where I am unable to pay MY OWN bills, due to the credit card debt. I am very scared and depressed over the whole thing. Thank you for reading my story and God Bless! |
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we are in need of a working vehicle. we are pastors that just moved here and I'm working but my husband is not. we are in debt and cant get a loan. we just need a working vehicle to get back and forth to work,school, and church.I dont know if you can help but thank you any ways |
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wolfy1
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I have some financial hardships that with the help of my of a couple of married children that needed my help I got into. That and a well that needed repaired every 4 or 5 days and that was witha new pump. I have gotten behind I am desparately trying to dig out and get back on an even keel and regain control of my finances on my fixed income. I am in danger today of losing my power and that is not my faiult we have alot of electrical problems with the house we bought and were lied to about and the bill runs 300 to 350 a month in the winter.And we have wood heat. I need 550 to finish paying up the light bill or our local power company will shut it down. They do not care that I have had to take custody of my 2 year old granddaughter or that I have asked them repaetedly to help us find out why the power bill is so much. I have a family of nine. My husband can not work due to a bad back. He has 5 or 6 herniated discs and we have been fighting for 3 + years to get his income back. I could really use a total of 2,500 to catch up on my truck payment of 297. or I also lose that today. I had to buy a new pump for the well this month and had trouble making my house payment. Even if you wanted to make it a loan I would be forever grateful. I have tried everything else I can think of. I have asked my mom and I hate to do that she is 69 and needs a cataract surgery this week .She would put her surgery off and I would not allow that. As i sit here I am in tears I feel desperate and very humble I have no where else to turn. I take that back I always have God and wll never give up on Him. I believe He may have led me to this site . I would be forever in your debt If you cold please do this . Very HUmbly mom and adopted mom of 9+1 If you want more information please feel free to email me I will fax any proof of income or anything you feel you need. There is alist of things that have happened in the last year thast have slowly but surely led to this point in my financial down fall. I can prove almost all ofit. Again If you can help You would be very appreciated.
For anyone who has tried to get a loan and came across an orginization that says they can apporve you for a loan but you have to pay up front do not do it. The private lenders are form Canada and you will never see your money back much less a loan. It is called charities something. PLEASE BEWARE OF THAT GROUP. THEY will hurt you not help The world needs more people like this gentleman. |
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Terrence B Knows
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I have a business that helps people
gain marketable job skills online
we show them methods to earn money online
using proven methods that work time and time again.
we need to reach a wider market
so we need funding to do this. |
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Jo Blo
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Jo is not deserving of your benevolence............... |
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saucynsassy1
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hi if this is for real ...i would like to commend you on your generousity..if in fact like so many other scams you are just trying to rip money of the poorest of poor then you should hang your head in shame ...now i like millions of others will bite at your offer because i want to believe there can be miracles and that there are still kind and generous people left on this planet...basically i need money to pay off a few small debts and to help to send a friend of mine who had a heart attack to see his nearly 90 year old mother overseas...i could go on and on about my life and amuse or depress others except i do not think it necessary..you can always contact me for more information if you are genuine..now if you really want to help people you could do as i am trying to do and raise money to purchase a farm in a poverty stricken country to be run by the poor ...to provide themselves with an income and also to use a percentage of the profits to go towards their community and hopefully to purchase other farms so other families in turn can be helped...these farms will be run eco friendly and also will be used to educate other poor farmers how to yeild better crops without having to pay the big chemical companies who are just promising a lot and delivering nothing exept more problems in the future...anyway if you are genuine i wish you all the best and may more people follow your example...if you are fake then i apologise on your behalf to all the people who have had their hopes yet again dashed by someone who would rather waste everyones time for his own sick amusement..to those people having a hard time hold on.. there are good people out there and i hope you get all the help you need...may we all learn one day to help eachother instead of ourselves...and for anyone wondering i am not religious just wanting to make a change...if anyone feels compelled to talk to me they can contact me on savannah_72@hotmail.com...best wishes to all |
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august_r1
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Are your so truly with your offering? I need loan cause i need fund for my business to keep my business still running and to pay my debts too and the most important things is i have to prepare for my second child which will be born this June. I really don't know how to asked help and actually i am really ashamed to asked your help, but i know i have no choice. I've been trying with my friends but its seem they are not a real friend when i need help. I know money too important for them and i know with the situation in my country right know, not easy to got money. Please if you trust me give me a loan and i promise i will pay you back as soon as i can. thx |
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crazyworld
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Wow, i can use some help. my husband and i have 5 children between the 2 of us, and they all live in the house. My husband works his *** off and we still can not make ends meet. Last thursday our electricity was shut off and we can not afford to get it turned back on. I gave the neighbor 40 dollars just to tap into their electricity so i can keep our refridgerator running and to keep the tv on for my 3 yr old so he has something to do. We have no lights, no way to cook.... and its taking everything we have just to keep the kids fed at night. |
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Patches6
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Interesting...my life sucks...then again this could be an imaginative adventure or a scam or a real life thing...
can we carry on this adventure?
Why I need help? It really isnt I but the people who have been hurt by the ordeal and the truth never surfacing/ I would be just part of the ripple effect of truth surfacing. My life will never get the part back that died (determination).
Stand up for myself would cause irrepairable harm and the person doing the harm never surfaces but gets away with it. I believe it is a mentally deficient individual but who?
Thanks for listening but money may not solve the problem and already individuals have gone broke trying
I would really be better off writing a book and hope it is a best seller listing |
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Princesa
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I think you are wrong, there is plenty of legitimate charity organizations. Start by consulting a church. |
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Whyme
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I have a post as follows...
In Need of a Personal Loan $15,000 - $20,000 willing to pay HIGH interest.!!?
Anyone interested in earning 15% - 20% on their money rather than what a bank has to offer on some savings. ?? Would like to get a person to person loan through Promissory note, you can even hold a mtg on my home in case it would default (not going to happen :) ) Just wanting to consolidate and pay off a few debts and don't want to go with conventional financing. Also, NO SCAMMERS !! I have had my fair share of those offers. If serious to earn 15%-20% for 48 to 60 months, Please contact me as soon as possible to discuss details. First come first serve. Thanks in advance ... Mom of 2 :)
Additional Details
Already have a second mtg... and my credit score isn't that great... but I am an honest person that is hoping someone will answer my prayers. It's been done before ~
Steady job for 19 yrs. Owned my home for 7 years and have good references. Just don't want to borrow from family. ~
**** My husband started a new business last summer and is in the process of creating a new material to patent for insulation. ** It is taking alot out of us and we could you the extra money to consolidate.
I would sooo greatly appreciate your consideration. |
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chichiono
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welcome !!!
http://all-aboutfinance.blogspot.com |
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Desperate
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Hello, i have a serious problem...its not my problem though...its my girlfriend and i believe that my girlfriend's problems are mine too. My girlfriend has serious problems. She is struggling financially to graduate from a University with a Law Degree, but there is no money. To start with, her family is very poor, her mom is hard working but cannot afford to pay for university fees. she has two other children. Two years ago i started paying for her fees, but i cant afford anymore as i also have my mom and siblings to support. So my girlfriend desperately needs money to go to school. To make matters worse, her Father, who is unemployed is now sick and cant walk. we need your help, pease respond to this post. there is a lot of problems that she has and if God touches your heart, you will help. Thank you |
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AngelWings
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I was divorced over 6 years ago and purchased a home with my settlement (over $40,000) I tried to get modified several times with mortgage company but was always told I did not make enough money! Then I lost my job last April and was told I could modify, but was told unemployment does not count as income so until I got another job I could not modify> Its been over 9 months now and still no job and I cannot pay over $10,149.00 to save my home. I have equity in home (if I do short sale I lose of course) but I have noone to help. Is there ANYway to save my home??? |
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Sorelle Dreams
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Dear Sir / Madam,
me and my friends have been dreaming of putting up a business of our own. actually we have already started doing it in our own little ways and with the kind help of our friends.
we are baking cupcakes and cakes for all types of occassions. we also organizing different kinds of events. these are the things that we do love to do and we have so much passion on it.
to be honest, we really dont have a capital to start our business in the real market. we just do it at home at we still do have our own work in different companies to back us up financially. but what we really wanted to do is to solely focus on this business and make it work but we really dont know how are we going to do that if we dont have any financial support.
this has been our dream for quite sometime now. and by fulfilling this dream, we also want to help any kids who would like to make their dreams come true as well. it would not be a big charity or anything like that. just a small fund that we can put up so we could help kids to have an education.
im really not sure if you're real or not but then i thought, it wouldnt hurt if i try and miracles can happen if you just believe. |
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PLZ HLP9
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I am 25yrs old & I have a 9yr old son. I recently lost my job & am currently behind in my rent by 2mths. My rent is $1,000/mth. I could use about $5,000 to pay my back rent & pay a couple mths in advance while I concentrate on finding another job. This will truly b a big help to me & my son. PLEASE HELP ME! |
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angel6855
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i am 45 years old abd work everyday. ihave been on the same job for 10 years and no medical insurance. i am not eligible for charity help because i make to much money-i am in severe need of a total hysterectomy-i have a large fibroid tumor-i was admitted to the hospital and treated and released due to no ins. this is been in my body for over 2 years and the surgery is around 25,ooo dollars please help me |
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Jesus
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I am 41 years old and I have a Sister older than me who are now suffering from serious heart problem. The Doctor advice our family for an urgent heart operation for bulb replacement. Amounting to 600 thousand Philippine currency is the estimated hospital bill. Your support can really extend the life of my sister. PLEASE HELP ME AND MY SISTER. |
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mississippi1
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I am 52 and trying to get thru college. I now need a car and money to license it and insurance for it and also I ended up with a fraudulent check for 2,850.00. And now I am in trouble and great financiial aid. I als got after that 4 money orders for 995.00 each and another check for 2,500.00 all fraudulant. What is up with people this day and age. Doesn't any one have morals any more. I would fill sick if somenone was asking me for money and I did that to them!!! It really hurt me got me in trouble and just makes me sick to my stomach!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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scott
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i have cataracts and no insurance. i will soon be unemployed, homeless and hopeless. please help me. |
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dice
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I'm a mother of 3 school aged children and my mother pasted away two years ago. I have been looking for work but haven't been able to find a job. I'm so behind on all my bills I just don't know what to do anymore I'm gonna end up losing everything. My total debts are 30,000 not including my mortgage but right now I'm looking for $5000 just so I can get some payments made towards my bills. I have just been having such a hard time since my mom passed away and have no one to turn to to help me out. |
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Monica
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I've never had an idea that I ask for help. my husband committed suicide two years ago and left me in debt, lost my house, I have a child 16 years old.MY whole life I was a homemaker and raised my children.I have been looking for work but no luck ,Looking everyday .In two weeks I will be homeless with my child.I did sold off everything from the house. I have nothing to survive .MY Son does not know. I do not have food for my son.I dont know what i will say that we will be on the street in two weeks. Payment for the car no longer paid a few months.Please help, to pay it back.Just please if someone could help me, I will give everything back just help me to survive . I'm in such a stage that wants to take my life away.but i have to be for my son but there are those moments that I would like to escape from this nightmare.Please if it is someone who can help me.
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Aj
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i am college student . My girl friend is two manths pergnant . we both are good and happy to gather ,Ia m 23 years old man .I was thinking if some can help me financialy , i will stop leting my girl friend to do abortion tom. so please help asp. I will pay them when every thing cool down . thank you . |
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no where to turn
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To get to the point I am a mother of two me and my husband fell behind on our mortgage and they are threating to foreclose I have a mentally disabled son and a daughter we fell behind beacause my husbands hours where cut but he got those back and the cars needed to be fixed we need to stop the forecloser we have nowhere to go. |
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aps
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I am a 43 yr old mother of 3 children all are studying. Right now i really needed help because my small business did not turned out well. It left me with debts. I don't know how to start all over again cause right now i don't have any money left in my pocket and sad to say i really have to pay my debts as soon as possible if not interest might be doubled and its going to add my troubles. I need to move on for my kids but how can i get started if no one in my relatives wanted to help. They do not understand what im going through.I really tried very hard and sadly it did not turned out well. How i wish you could trust me to lend your money to start anew. Thanks and God bless. |
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In need of help also
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I am a working grandmother. I have been raising 3 grandsons for the last 16yrs. I only have 1 left @ home now. 9yrs ago my husband who was the major bread winner died suddenly. He left us a small sum which is long gone. I have been struggling to make ends meet but since Christmas my finances have gotten out of hand. I could use alittle help. I am about to lose my car. I don't know how I would make it to work if I did. I work 30 miles from my home. |
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Hopeful
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I am a working grandmother who has been raising 3 grandsons for the past 16 years. My husband who was the bread winner for the most part died suddenly 9 years ago. Since then it has been a struggle but we got by somehow with out the help of either of the kids parents. Recently, due to a couple of poor decisions on my part we are now in jeopardy of losing my car. If you see fit to get us back on track, we would really honestly appreciate it. |
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emmy
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i borrowed from a private credit facility to start up asmall business and anfortunatly,i lost all my goods to theives and am now on zero and the a mount is increasing please iam beg for help from any well wisher.i wil be grate ful for any oes help.. |
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stella
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im are a mother of 4.my fist born finish form 4 last year.i cant get her results due to her fees balance which is 42000 .my second born is in form 1.my third born is in class 3 and the last born is in nursery school.i earn 6k per month .i strain so much to educate my kids.my daughter want to join a journalist college ,i have very bright kids but its hard for me to educate them please assist me. |
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Phil Roth
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hello there i am a 55 year old father and grandfather living with my son and 2 grandchildren. my son had an injury a few years back which caused a career change,which also caused a financial loss. i have been actively searching for employment to help offset the difference, but so far have been unsuccessful.I do have a couple of good aspects at this time, but it will be a little to late to save our house. We only need like 6000.00 dollars to stay above water till my situation improves. we have been in this house for 6 years now, and i don't want to see him loose it in foreclosure, if i can help it. He doesn't know i am begging like this, and it is not something that i am used to either. I am not asking for me, so much as i am for my family. If you could help us thru this pinch, i would be eternally grateful. Thank you for your time, and please do consider this,hard it would mean alot to us all. Thank you once again, and god bless you for your consideration. |
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v.suresh
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i took loan from private people at high interest hopeing that i will be able to pay i have got problem in both my legs were i am not able to walk freely and do my work so the amount has accumlated i am not able to pay back dues kindly help me |
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tracey
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i need help because i would like to finish my studys in business management and entrepreneurship and i only have 2years left and its hard for me to get a job right now and my study is really important for me because i would like to give a sense to my life.thanks |
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rome
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I'm not gonna be like everyone else won't lie to you and tell you I have big plans or a huge idea I'm just an out of work person 24 yrs old who is about to have a child and needs a little help to get by I'm truly confident that I can stand on my own 2 just that its been hard and life turns unexpectedly I can't afford to be in a jobless state as I didn't prepare and wasn't smart enough to raise money but I am I good and confident person that can hold a job but I haven't had the luck to find a new job |
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talkless
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hi! i need help because i am in a pit of financial crisis. my family has gone a lot of difficulties the past months. My dad is suffering heart enlargement and my youngest sister is suffering of a nervous breakdown. I incurred debts to several people to help my family with a high interest. I want to pay them all to pay off my debt and the interest and at least to have a starting capital for a business so that i and my family could get back on our feet again. I will pay back the amount i am going to borrow you on a monthly installment basis.
Also my priest brother needs financial help in his parish. I want to help him. His parish, if you must know, is a very poor parish. I am planning to help the parish out of my profit of the buss.
I don't need to talk much sir/ ma'am. All i need is a temporary financial help which i will return to you on a monthly installment basis so that you could still continue to help those in need.
I hope you are the answer to my prayer... thank you! |
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FallenAngel
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I feel as though Im drowning in debt and I feel that past financial mistakes ive made when I was 19 are now making it hard to breath now that im 25. I don't have tons of debt but enough to feel trapped. I had to drop out of college this semester because I could only afford last semester. I want to start again debt free! I have recently moved to Toronto and I even finding a good job is tough right now. I really need some help! I will do whatever it takes to prove how worthy I am of it. I am sick of taking the long way around I just want to feel peace.
Thank you. |
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