David M
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Sounds like you have problems deeper than these credit cards. There's a lack of faith and trust that no marriage can survive. If she doesn't come clean on this very soon, I'd start divorce proceedings before she ruins you financially. Good luck. |
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blahblahblahblahblah
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If she won't tell you then you can't find out. Sounds like you guys need some counseling, mainly her. Credit card companies will not give you any info, they won't even let me PAY my husbands bills over the phone since my name is not on the account. |
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Maria
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Well, if she's using her own account, you can't. It appears she may have a spending problem, which could bite you in the @ss later. It will be hard to break if she can't admit it. Just explain to her the consequences that could occur if she keeps this up, and suggest that the two of you see a financial counselor. Good luck. |
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thebat15
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i'd show her the divorce statements and make sure that your not on those cards!... |
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gobonzzo
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She must be on drugs. She probably has another address, too, which is where the statements are being mailed. Find out the other address and you find the statements. |
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Sharon T
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Looks like you need a good attorney. Basically, she comes clean or she moves out--or you do. A marriage cannot stand without trust and she has destroyed that. |
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Emma F
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Even is she did give you the account numbers, you will not be able to access those cards because of the privacy act. You two need to sit down and talk. There's a bigger problem here. Go to the link below, maybe this will help you. He has financial counsellors that can help you, beleive me they have seen it all. Good Luck! |
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J w
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You know if she is your wife you can get a joint credit report. only if your married. Or if you both have a joint bank account you can ask your banker too. |
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db♥1291
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Ummm... Either she's cheating on you or she's buying designer clothes behind your back in hopes that you won't notice (and you didn't) |
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Antacid
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if she opened them in her own name then its her tough luck when they dont get paid. However if she opened cany of them in both of your names then she opened them in a fraud situation and it will affect both of your credit scores. You will have to go after her for fraud in that case. Sadly your credit may be destroyed in the meantime.
Either way shes a whench, dump her and move on fast, cover all your bases. Shes not your dream girl no matter your feelings. |
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Ash Marie
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If you have a joint account, you're entitled to know where your money is going. I would contact a professional if I were you. |
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Marilyn G.
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If you don't get a super awesome surprise for christmas or your birthday, you really should look into that because it may later affect you.
If you really need to know and you can't get your hands on any of her personal papers, you might have to hire someone.
But it's dodgy and you'll have figure out how much you trust her.
Are you positive that those debts are at least partially from before you were married? How long have you been married? |
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