My husband works as a D.J. and Restaurant Server and makes pretty good money. I work 30 hours a week in retail and don't make a whole lot of money. We have seperate bank accounts and all of his money is hard to keep track of because it is always in cash. We want to buy a house, but the only thing is we will only get approved for what we claim on tax returns which isn't much. I guess I just feel angry because I feel like I have to ask my husband for money. I spend all of mine on bills. I feel so frustrated and sometimes wished that I married a guy who was more secure financially and had a job with good health insurance. I don't know what to do or how to relieve my stress and anger.