
Steph j
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seriously your money or you life???
Forget the money he owes ya, get out now. |
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dutch_luvs69
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Get a gun or a ball bat and take care of business !!! He sounds like loser of the decade . |
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Jim A
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Forget the money. Protect yourself.
Good luck. |
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bobbie e
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If you don't have any family or friends to move in w/, go to a woman's shelter. There are couselors there, and other women in your situation who can help you get back on track. It sounds like this abusive individual will not pay you your money back. I f you go to court and it is a large sum of $ - It is not a small claims court matter. There is free legal help. Call the legal bar association. - Leave this person. Do not tell him you are going to leave. Be smarter than him. Have a plan of action and follow it through. Also, if you go to a woman's shelter, ask abt filing of police report, as it needs to be recorded. Good luck and don't let him rob you of your self esteem. BE BRAVE & JUST DO IT or He may kill you, and you know it better than anyone else. Survival ! |
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carlos s
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get enough info and check reciept and stuff like that and take him or her to a small claims court... dont bother to keep calling because it wont work.. |
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BoomChikkaBoom
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If you can't take him to small claims, then you need to forget it and move on. |
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Screaming Eagle
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Find a safe house.
Get out first, worry about money later.
There are places that you can call that will do this.
Run don't walk.
As to money, take the person to court, and have their wages attached. Or if it is the person you fear, sell the debt to a collection agency, they might take half but it is better than nothing or seeing him again.
God bless you and good luck! |
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sarah k
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you tell me my cousin owes me over a 1000 dollars and her broke a** is still asking for more |
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laue
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If you really admit it. Get out now. Just do it. Why someone needs money if is not alive? Call the police. Go to Abused woman shelter. Counselors or Legal aid can give you more answers about the money. Please save your life first. |
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♥cexisnowbunny♫
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dependsing on situation, but if its really that bad, sometimes its best just to cut your losses and be done with it, move on and forget it, just be happy to out of it |
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mrklcoac2002
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latina,
call debbi carroll at 1-866-471-3782 or www.debbicarroll.com and tell her mark referred you, and temporarily go to a friends or a shelter but get out of that house right now |
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cristanine
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Dont' let out any more money. |
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Nice
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1st Friendly asking
2nd legal action |
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*ICE*
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look in the paper. There is an ad for a person called The Equalizer. |
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Jack 'N' Box
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Just call it bad debt and run for your life. go to a shelter if you have to.. he could pobably find you at family members and friend. |
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John M
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You have taken the first step. You realize that you are in danger. Now, go to the Police and file a Peace Bond against him. Then go and check into a woman's shelter. Find a lawyer(legal aid) and go after what he owes you. A court order will keep him away if he knows what good for him.
Yes your life may be messed up for about a year, but at least you will have a life. If he still doesn't cough up what is owed to you, then send it to a collection agency. What a way to wreck his credit rating! |
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kellie m
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Try turning them upside down!!{ha ha} |
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judy
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You need to get out!!!!! Go to the local police and get yourself and your children (if any) to a shelter for abused women......Please call someone and get some help. The first thing is what you have done and that is admitting you are in a bad place.
Call your mom or a friend.....you CAN get help. Just make that first step.... YOU CAN DO THIS
REMEMBER YOU ARE WORTH SOMETHING. YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON AND YOU WILL GET THROUGH IT.
Good Luck |
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misslabeled
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Is it really a debt? If it someone you are married to or live with it is probably considered communal funds used in the course of the relationship unless there was a specific agreement that it was a loan and will be repaid. Even then, given the circumstances, it's he said/she said unless you got it in writing. |
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**Jellybean princess**
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What does one question have to do with the other? I f someone owes you money and they wont pay you back then take them to court, but if your in an abusive relationship get out. Make sure your questions make sense before you ask this only takes common sense. |
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