lulu
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an old saying.......
If you lend a friend £100 and you never see that friend again, then thats £100 well spent - kiss them and the money goodbye
A tough lesson to learn - never a lender or a borrower be ! |
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poliana s
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go to his house and ask him for your money face to face.. |
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Penfold
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Take him to the small claims court. |
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Lilly11a
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Never mix business with pleasure. Typical example any money you lend to a friend or family think of as a gift and a bonus if you get it back. You could file a claim form on line (www.moneyclaimonline.co.uk I think)but it really is not worth the bother and will cost you extra in court fees. Even if you get a judgement, if they decide to ignore this you then have to instruct baliffs which costs more money and then if they own nothing of value you still wont see a penny. |
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sam tyler
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stay cool,perhaps ask them out for a drink and ask causally if theres a prob.dont get angry,easier said then done.perhaps its what they have done with the money they feel guilty about. |
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Em x
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Take them to the small claims court! |
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Darlingthatsfabulous
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if u can be bothered, small claims court. |
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chad p
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f |
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patty p
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This happened to me once and when i asked for it back (£200) my "mate" got realy angry and said i gave it to him?. I had to forget about the money but i was hurt that he did that to me. we didnt speak after that and I realised later on that he would have done it to anyone and probably did.
I recently heard he was in prison for stabbing someone! so thank god he took my money and we had a small argument that stopped us speaking! that could have been me( |
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stormydays
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Cant take them to a small claims because law does not recognise an agreement as valid when made in a social context (between family/ friends etc)
Unless you can prove that you intended the loan to be legally binding eg an agreement drawn up and signed by you both outlining your terms and conditions |
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Q678
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Hi if they dont pay it back and they wont talk to you well what goes around comes around cause the next time it happens it will happen to them. And i would not ask for the money its not worth geting hurt over it id let them go and not do it again learn from your mistakes have a great day take care! |
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babs
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Really difficult situation.
I would approach them about it but in a friendly way as though you are encouraging them to explain why they haven't paid you back yet, not just pressurising them.
Suggest a repayment plan, like regular installments and keep a record of it.
Good luck, I would expect they are actually feeling awkward. Some people think they can ignore a problem and it will go away. |
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swayze
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Kiss your money goodbye and not lend them anymore... |
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Dec08Mommy
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I would let it go and chalk it up to a lesson learned = Dont lend money. This is a reflection of your x-mates integrity. Even if they cant afford to pay you back now, they should at least communicate that to you and offer to pay a bit at a time if not all at once. |
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jo
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sent letter asking for it or sent the money to the person if u owe them i got same problem person owes me but wont send money |
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NONAME
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was being the operative word- send their neighbors information about what they get up to with sheep-send pics if you have them. |
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dhdaddy2003
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Consider it a hundred pound lesson in loaning money to "friends". |
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homesy2k5
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speak to the persons family if u know them , or pay ure m8 £50 quid to do some damage to him n reclaim the money , then ure only 50 quid down, halfs ure losses |
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smile
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Well, I'm not a wealthy man but, a, family owes me about
4000.00 pounds. and b, I *****Never****** loan what I can't afford to loose.
Cheap lesson, dear fellow. |
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