dostluk_kashtamar
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HI
may be he fried at you if you girl safe to you do not work out home it is dangerous for girl you can work in home like I do I learn at 3ds max and photoshop then people ask me to do some projects and give me money for that the projects i did it at my computer in my home that is good work and safe your father seems to me good father I wish that I have father or mother I really do not have I never see them my wish these days is be with family I try so hard to have family but it doesn't work because of my age 18 I advise you to work in your home that's good idea and thanks. |
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Shambles
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Tell him fair enough but I am buying a house. He'll soon change his mind paying your mortgage. |
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Holly Golightly.
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if your 18, your an adult, just be indepentdent enough to leave and get a job. its your life and your dad cant control it and you dont have to ask for money if you just make your own.
i dont know any websites but live your own life :) |
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celebrate
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You should tell your Dad about your ambitions. Maybe he will either give you money to invest or allow you to work for that money. It would be a great experience for you. Yes, you can work this out in a positive way. |
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Feeling Mutual
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Join the Marines!
Semper Fi! |
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Doctor Deth
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you are an adult at 18. You can do whatever you want-buying shares should be about 15th on your list of priorities.getting an education or a full time job, then saving for a car and/or an apt would be a lot more important than buying "shares" |
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Amii
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ur well lucky.... im 16 n my mums threatening to kick me out unless i find a job!!!! |
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Gotcha
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He has no right to dictate how you should live your life. You are now an adult and should go out and get a job. |
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louise a
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i think maybe you need to have a talk with your dad, you need to explain that your an adult and need to live your own life. maybe hes scared of loosing you, but at 18 i was moved out, living on my own and had been working for 2 years. if you want to work you should, other wise you are goin to find it very difficult in the future. you are an adult, he'll soon get used to the idea. my dad made me work, teaches you alot of things, allows you to grow up. |
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gasguy695
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try and apply online with monster.com or even look in the classifieds from your local newspaper or even your park dist.
its nice that your dad is paying for your bills but its also nice to be independant and learn how to work and managed your bills by yourself |
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Hayley
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I have some money in bonds, you don't lose any money and you can win monthly prizes. http://www.nsandi.co.uk have a look.
Can I just say you are a very lucky girl! I wish my dad would say that to me! |
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bud
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at 18 you can do what you want, you are an adult, why don`t you start asking for flash cars, expensive holidays, clothes and jewelery, he will soon get fed up of getting the cheque book out. |
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Sweet
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Babysitting you can get up to $12 an hour for your age, but thats a little much--a good price would be about $10 an hour!! I hope you consider doing this and good luck! |
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momtosix
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He who has everything values nothing..If you are given everything, how can you learn to work? That's nuts! |
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Agony Uncle Andy
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Cool... lucky you.
Now tell him that you will stagnate as a person without something to focus on each day, and that you need some spiritual reward, which you feel you will gain by contributing to the society you live in.
Tell him you are either going to take a full time job with a wage, or that you wish to do some unpaid charity work, in which case you are happy for him to pay you an agreed salary.
Print this out if you like, and show him that if you don't work you sit around wasting time, contrinbuting nothing to the world around you, and that it is not good for your soul.
Be prepared to accept that some dominating alpha male tendency in him is over-developed- he has a dependancy on you, otherwise as a caring parent he would be actively encouraging you to go out into the world to make your way.
If he has the cash, why not talk about a family business, which he could back you in, keeping you close whilst letting you get out there to seek your way through life.
Most of all, keep calm, and be glad you were not an orphan, or abandoned, or poor, or beaten, or in poor health. You sound to have got a very priviliged life.
All the best. |
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Bumumble the 3rd (Bow down 2 me)
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Maybe he is jeolous because you are more likely to be earniing more money than him.
Or if he is on benifits , they he is likley to lose some,
He ain't saying it for no reason |
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Knownow't
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You are 18....although he obviously didnt waste his vast wealth on your education, so leave home, get a job and come back to see him when you have made it.....maybe that is what he wants to see.... |
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