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Sam | My husband and I just found out we are having our third child. We are 20 and broke. how can we make extra $?.? |
We were doing well but suprises happen. Some one stole my husbands Id and we are in a very deep whole. If anyone has been here and knows what we are going through please let me know what can help. The stress level is through the roof. |
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kcsilverlining77
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O.K.. You both are going to need to work two jobs to make ends meet. It's so bad that you both are so young and have so many kids. Do you have relatives that can keep the children while you both work? If so, ask for their help. Also, ask if you can stay temporarily with a friend or family member. That also can help the both of you while you save money and wait for baby # 3. If possible, please try to further your education so that you can obtain jobs that pay more so you won't have to work as hard. Be sure to use birth control in the future (the pill, IUD, condoms, etc.) so that you won't be having a 4th child next year. Good luck to the both of you. I wish you well. :)
For future reference (post-baby):
http://www.plannedparenthood.org |
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itsjustme
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It takes a person with character to admit they need help and ask for it. anybody who is not in your situation can easily criticize you but some will actually help you. Email me if you truely want an idea that will help you. Your going to have to do some work but its so worth it and you'll never have to be in this situation again. |
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Sean T
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TRY PLANNING!!!
1) Starting with family planning. WTF are you people doing having 3 kids (at 20 yrs old, mind you) when you don't even have a pot to piss in???
2) Then try financial planning. Get a job, get a better job. Repeat as necessary. Plan a budget and stick to it!!! Cut costs to the bare minimum.
3) Then try life planning. You wanna live the rest of your life like this??? You want to raise 3 kids in an environment like this??? Assess your life and take responsibility for your poor life choices. Suck it up and make the hard choices NOW, because it's only going to get worse.
4) "The good lord helps those that help themselves"... You got yourself into this mess, it's YOUR job to get out. Not mine, not the government, not your friends. YOU. |
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Methlehem
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Wow, I don't mean to be sarcastic here, but have you considered using condoms or some other kind of birth control? The cost of the contraceptive device is nothing compared to what it costs to raise a child in this day and age, and is only a minor inconvenience.
Now, I realize there are people out there who think using contraceptives is a bad thing, but I think it is far worse to bring a child into the world who cannot be properly cared for.
Anyway, I would suggest that maybe you liquidate some of your assets, like maybe sell your car if you drive an expensive one, and maybe find a less expensive vehicle to drive til you get on your feet again. If you have a camper, I'd sell it or rent it out to people. If you have a completed basement, you could rent that out for some extra money. If you have a boat, jet ski, pontoon, or something like that you could sell that and use the extra money for more important things.
People always fall into the trap of getting attached to their material possessions without realizing that they can always get more "stuff" later. Sometimes you have to make sacrifices in life, and if you really want to do the right thing by this child, sacrificing your PC or vehicle shouldn't be a big deal to get yourself in a good financial position to make things run smoothly for your family unit.
Have you considered getting a part-time job doing something for some extra cash? Do you do arts and crafts? Some people pay lots of money for hand crafted items. Maybe you could sell that stuff at a local flea market or on ebay. Those are all options too. =) You could pick up some odd jobs babysitting, cleaning houses, painting houses, yard work / landscaping, tutoring, etc. Friends, neighbors, and family are an invaluable source as far as odd jobs like this are concerned. You might be able to make some extra cash doing things for them... And of course, if they thought you did a good job, they might even do a bit of word of mouth advertising on your behalf! =)
I hope things work out for you. I also hope you start being more responsible...
Cheers. |
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worldsbesthighfiver
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Pick up 2nd jobs until the baby comes try to apply for some kind of aid like wick or vision |
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Dez
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Holy cow! Ever heard of birth control!
Why don't one of you get a 2nd job? |
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GuitarChick
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Dude, 20? I think that's a bit young to be married, let alone having children. Just my thoughts...mabye you should have made more money before you started poppin' out kids. |
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lurv_u2000
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hey i know just how you feel hunni.
Im 20 and my husband is 24 and we are going through the same thing right now. funny part about my third is i used a condom that split the morrning after pill that failed and a coil fitted that fell out :-) so now we will have three kids under 3 lol
so using birth controle doesnt always work lol.
my b/f is always trying to make money and at the moment he has a good plan to do with muscle picking.
loads of cash in hand money so people say.
Have you tried Ebay hun? car boot sales? you can pick up cheap things on ebay and sell them at car boots or the other way round.
Also if you have a household auction place by you that sells things really cheap you can always buy from there and sell on for more.
there are loads of ways of making money off ebay, it probably is you best bet hun.
good luck with your baby |
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peach
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One way is to get signed up on Ebay if you are not already. Buy things cheap, then sell for a profit. Also, things around your home that you don't need, someone will want them. I know some people that started this and are currently making about $500 extra a month. Know your pain, we have 5 kids. |
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candispassion.com
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OH my gosh!! What a night mare. I am so sorry about the ID thing. Having another baby.......Things will work out because everything happens for a reason....That has not happened to us before, but happened to very good friends and shortly after the Id and credit card was stolen, their house got broken into....Be careful!!
As far as the extra money goes..I do Passion Parties and make very good money. And have a ton of fun. (in case you have not heard of them, they are just like a pampered chef, or party lite show,....but the products are to enhance relationships) 40% is what we get plus bonuses and overrides, but it does cost to start up.....I could maybe help you get a kit if it would be something you would really want to do to make some extra money. |
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Dalayna M. T
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How about a part-time job? Or sellinng your old items on Ebay or in a yard sale. |
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