Joel R
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I would ground you until the day you turned 18. |
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kitty76
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Id give you a BIG telling off, smack your **** and ground you for 6mths, you would have no contact with friends at all for those 6Mths untill you have learnt your lesson.
How on earth could you do that to your parents?? |
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She's Ever the Opportunist
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I'd say that you are ungrateful... Look at me. I'm already judging you... |
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Joe Mama
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What would I do? I would do something to you mentally and physically that would leave a lasting impression on you so that you knew that if you stole from me in the future there would be no question of the consequences.
I'm not going to judge you but you know you need some discipline. |
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rory145
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you are dirty scum... y would you do that in the first place. |
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YA is a sham
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If I were your guardian....you would be behind bars long enough to learn your lesson and the judgement would include repayment or a return to the graybar hotel.
No need to judge, you have freely admitted to being a lowlife thief, you need to change your ways..people have been killed for far less money. |
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David M
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I would have you arrested for being a thief. I am not judging you, just telling you what I would do. Good luck. Sounds like you need it. |
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Show No Remorse
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you little ***** i would kill you lmao
well actually no i would not let you go out until you pay it back
but i am not sure just tell your mum and accept the consequences x |
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Hula_gurl
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give your guardian a due date when you will pay them back and if you don't do it by then they can have personal items and such |
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e L
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so what exactly do you want answered?
want us to tell you its ok?
well....its not, you dont need councelling you need dissipline and morals....
how pathetic. really.
wow thats low. |
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Reaper
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Hey i would make you pay for it councelling and other things but hey you are most likely a teenager and so am i and i would do the same thing. |
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mathewvlado
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it seems to me you are just craving some attension i don't know if i spelled that right but i think you know what i mean. as long as you don't do it again and pay off your dept and say your sorry i would just ground you for a week with no cell phone |
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Lisa Marie
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What you did was bad but you have realised that & are trying to do the right thing by paying it back & facing up to what you have done.Your doing your best to sort things out so take your punishment & keep paying the money back |
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Larry E
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You should be in jail. |
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Joe S
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my opinion is that you are a theif. how long is "eventually"? |
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Q DAWD
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u would be grounded for bout 2-3 months no fone no tv no internet no nuthin i would put bars on the windows or chek on u every half hour then wen u get out u will get ABSOLUTLY NO MONEY from me for a year i would CUT U OFF then if ur in high school i'll send u to bording school u'll vuy ur own car pay for all ur stuff AND no money from mommy or daddy |
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JA12
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I would report you to the police and get you prosecuted.
You are obviously a greedy little habituated thief and need to learn a hard lesson.
Understand that if you had been born in an Arabic country, you would now have no hands.
A boot camp would be a good idea too. |
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Dark Te
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if you can spend £2500 on rubbish in four goes, you have a bigger problem that you haven't even spotted - when older you will get credit cards and max them and spend YEARS in a horrible hole worrying about debts, unless you start learning, to start with just choose one really "rubbish" item you bought (an expensive one) and put the cost on the wall in your room and then save up for that item only - write down the money you give to your guardian and how you earned it and what things like meeting boys and going out that you missed out on while you were working/earning it, and then when you finally have paid your guardian for that item look at list on paper and the sacrifices you had to make because of what you did. Think about how much hassle that was to pay off just one item. I think looking at that bit of paper you will start to realise how long it takes to 'earn' and you might avoid digging that horrible debt hole for yourself in a few years - your love for "rubbish" could make you feel as bad every day as you did when you got discovered as a thief.
that's the bit your need to get in your head - how horrible it is to not have any money and have people constantly visiting and phoning and hassling you to your face and taking you to court trying to get money out of you.
What i'm trying to get across is only you can get yourself into a position where you can go a better way. |
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Steve L
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Guardian speaks of someone with legal responsibility, but no-thing else. I would in that situation therefore look to see you building up my trust again, that would be along process,
If that guardian was also a parent however that makes it a little more complicated as there is usually genuine love involved as well. If i was also a parent as well as the guardian i would still need trust built up, but it would probably be a shorter process. |
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Orla C
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You've offered to pay it all back, okay, this is good.
But I would be really really pissed off with someone doing that to me. Especially as I need the money for other things like getting work done in the house. |
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SP/ARMAGH
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I would be disappointed in you, but would want to find out more about why you did it.
You accept it is wrong, as you use the word 'stole', so seeing a counsellor is a good start.
Your guardian or parent may still be the best person to help you through.
Dont do it again, seek help for the underlying cause. No one should judge you - its a symptom of something else.
x |
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Windig W
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just cannot say it. |
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LG
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Make darned sure your hindend spen time in JAIL! |
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Oldboy
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OMG. As a parent / guardian disappointment and anger would set in really fast. You obviously have respect issues that need to be addressed as well as an uncontrollable lack of self discipline.
What you have done is forever damaged your relationship with the person who has provided and cared for you.
Again WOW. I could a least guarantee one thing. Along with the counseling you would need surgery to remove my foot from your ***. |
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abcd
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Your guardian has no control over his/her credit cards and savings account! That's a lot of money you spent. How could he/she not be monitoring their bills? Part of the blame goes to them but only of negligence.
You were humble enough to request advise and brave enough to face the taunts you are already recieveing. And your undergoing counselling states that you are remorseful. That's a step in the right direction. Congrats!
Now, if I was the guardian and mind you not rich financially, I would be angry. Overtime, I guess I'll understand. After all, nobody is all innocent! Everybody has wronged and no denying that.
Simply make a payment plan. Get an extra job and curb some unncessary expenses you might have. Also, try selling or returning some of the rubbish items that your purchased.
Time heals everything and one day you'll be over the top! |
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Joshua R
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If you were a man I'd beat the living **** out of you. But, since you're not I'd get you to pay it back and slap you over the back of the head. You don't need counseling to stop stealing, you just need good character. I'm 23 and I've NEVER stolen anything in my life. And I'm serious! It might be a teenage phase, but really the best thing to do is wake up to yourself.
Good on you though for admitting to the crime and freely offering to pay it back. This shows there is definite hope for you! In the mean time don't get too down on yourself... |
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MollyMac13
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I would take your actions to mean that you don't like or respect me and are never likely to.
You don't say how old you are but in any event I would probably report you to the police and let the criminal justice system deal with it. |
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Adrian Monk
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I would probably freak out. |
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Feeling Mutual
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I would have you arrested and make you pay it back.
IMHO: It is a greater offense to steal from the ones who care about you and care for you, than from a stranger. |
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israelburns
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I'd spank you, then put you out. |
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