Rx_Mich
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If you had moved into the apartment would the landlord say um... you haven't been here a month yet I don't want your money??? He is only paying for the time he has been there. That is fair. He moved in Nov 5 start paying from Nov 5th. If he really thinks differently then maybe he should go live elsewhere and see who else can give him free rent for a month. Better you find out about his character early in the relationship before you have invested more than just money.
Since you say it is a mortgage then that means you would owe the money whether he contributed or not so it is really up to you if you tag him on this one, but I believe it speaks volumes about any commitment he has towards you. I hope there are not kids involved here. I would hate for someone to get attached to him if he needs to go soon. |
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Gillian A
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If ur already disagreeing on bills, maybe u shouldn't live together. Me and my bf aren't even discussing who pays what, and we're planning on moving in together. I think whoever uses more of something has the whole of that bill, like we're gonna pay our own cell phone bills, split the hydro in half, and splitting cable bill since we both use our internet. I think if money is at all an issue in any part of a relationship, that's a big warning sign. |
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sonrisa.traviesa
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I think everything should be split 50/50 including the mortgage starting immediately. If he moves in on November 5th, then he should pay 1/2 of the mortgage that day. If he waits until December 5th then he has lived there one month free. That is my opinion. |
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sux_2b_ewe
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If the mortgage payment that you made in November was for the month of November, then he should pay half of it minus 5 days. If it was for October, then he should wait until December.
For all bills of the household, each person should only pay for the things they use during the time they used them. So simply figure out the time period that the bill is supposed to cover services for and work it out from that. |
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Legion
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He should pay Nov. 5. Mortgage is like rent. You pay the first month as soon as you move in. So as soon as he moves in, he needs to pay. |
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Sufi
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what is mtg? if it is rent then it depends on your lease and whetehr you are paying for the last month or next month. but if this is a problem, you may have other problems like who pays for groceries, toilet paper etc. |
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src50
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If you can't even agree on something as basic as that, I see trouble ahead. |
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:)
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Since hes moving in nov 5, he should pay at least most of 50% for the month hes living there of the mtg since he will be living there. He shouldent pay for the time hes not there, but he will be living there most the month so it would only make sense. Hope this helps. |
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DAMEON B
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nov 5 most people make you pay a deposit too and if he ever leaves he'll be gettin a free month |
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EiNST3iN
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What?
Your question is nowhere near clear.
If you and your boyfriend cant agree to split the bills then why are you together? Seriously? I would never argue with my fiance about splitting the bills. I would stand up and cover more than my half. But maybe thats just because I am a man. |
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The Scorpion
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It doesn't matter, because moving in with someone you aren't married to is step number one in the disaster that will soon become your life. Just watch. |
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Slim Jim
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you get a straw and put a tiny piece of paper in your mouth take it out and put it in the straw and SPIT AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! oops i just read the question right......:s |
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