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Marsha | Should I dump his behind? |
My finance wants to buy a house really bad and has no cash and can't afford big payments, so he wants me to use my inheritance to put $45,000 into it and he will take a mortgage for the rest which is $40,000..Then he wants me to give him my whole paycheck so we can share the bills, even though he makes $40,000 a year more than I do. I make $15,000 a year. He has a large child support payment each month. I asked him to use his 401k instead and we each put up an equal amount of cash, but he doesn't want to take a loan on that he says, he rather get a mortgage for the rest. I am suspicious of this...He is really putting the pressure on...Should I or shouldn't I? |
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Infantrygrll
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The second you go placing your $45,000 "into" the house it now becomes equity. If the house is placed in both your names he now owns half of all the house equity.
In other words do NOT do this. If you ever broke up later down the road you would be kissing your inheritance good bye as he would be legally entitled to half your home.
I suggest you live together and rent a place for at least 3 years before ever even considering buying a home together.
Best Of Luck! |
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bhoppy1014
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To me that is a red flag. The inheritance is yours and you do as you see fit. Personally if it were me and we decided to use it for that, i would have the house soley in my name. You should see how he feels about each of you putting in a percentage of your money in a Mutual account and each have your own. My husband and I waited about 2 years before we even did that because you never know. Money is the number one factor to why relationships deterioate. A new marriage and a new home is alot on your plate right now. As for the Child Support, that should come from his own account. I wish you the best, but when it comes to finances, unfortunately you have to be extremely cautious with everyone, even ones you love! |
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beenthere
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I am glad to hear that you are thinking twice about this. If he makes $40,000 annually more than you make, where has it all gone? He probably has savings somewhere that he hasn't bothered to tell you about.
Talk to a lawyer and get a pre-nup agreement signed.
Talk to a financial advisor or your bank mortgage officer and get their advice.
If you decide to put $45,000 down as the down payment get the house in your name only.
Why is he putting the pressure on? Does he plan to have you make the first payment, then break up with you and take half of the profit?
Sorry, but from what you said, I would not trust him. Make sure that you are legally taken care of. |
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Jason F
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No way. You have a reason to be suspicious, especially if he is putting on the pressure.
Let's say you put your money in the house, and he gets a loan for the rest. Then you break up. He might own the house outright if he were sneaky and put the title in just his name. Even if the title is in both your names, the house would have to be sold and then he would get 1/2 of the proceeds.
Keep your inheritance money COMPLETELY seperate until you get married. Do not put it into an joint account with him. Once again, he gets 1/2 if you were to break up. He also could go when you do not know it and withdrawl the whole thing. |
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Tom K
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NEVER buy something like this with a fiance.
And remember that his first wife probably still has a claim to part of his 401k. |
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street4success
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Without knowing anything else, I say 'No". Sounds like he wants your money...be careful or you could end up in financial trouble, particularly after you get married, as it is a legal contract. |
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Levi
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All sounds a bit one sided. Re-negotiate. Don't sell yourself short. |
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STEVEN F
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I don't recommend buying ANYTHING jointly until you are actually married. I was suspicious BEFORE reading that you are. If in doubt, DON'T tie yourself to him legally or financially. |
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cajunbaby
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if yall are getting married i can see it being cool for u to get the loan on your name but signing over your check never never never cool. i know a few women that do that and i don't get it. i earn my money and if he makes more than me and wants to help good but eff him getting my hard earned pay if he wants to be a control freak i will just stay home and play house wifie. sorry to rant its a touchy subject. u should talk to him about it all and explain how u feel and work through it if it is workable if not u do need to consider moving on. |
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stan c
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Don't walk away from him, I suggest you run! You think you have minor problems now, it will get worse if you marry him. Better to be safe now than sorry later. |
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KatyDid
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Don't do it baby! If you default on the loan, you are out some real cash. What if he does up and go? You will be in deep doodoo. Its a HUGE step buying a house. My husband and I have been paying for ours nearly 20 years now, but we had been married 12 years before we took that step. Ultimately its up to you, just be very careful and dont rush into anything. Good Luck!! |
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Goonhilda
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Tell him if he wants to buy a house, then he needs to save a deposit. Why should you give him your money so he can get a house?
I suggest you use that deposit and buy your own house. Then, he can live with you in the house and pay you for his share of the bills.
He obviously doesn't care about how this is making you feel. If he doesn't care about your feelings, dump him. That's your money. He's just using you as a cheap way to buy a house and get what he wants. If he really wants to get a house, tell him to save a deposit over the next 6 months. If he can't do that, why should he be entitled to your money?
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browncat79
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You understand that if you buy a house together it will be in your joint names. If you separate, for any reason, he will get half the money. He wants you to turn over your paycheck to him?
Look very closely as to why his previous relationship broke-up. He sounds very controlling and manipulative. The fact that you feel red flags right now, trust your instincts and get out.
If for any any reason you decide to marry him, get a pre-nuptual agreement stating that your inheritance is yours alone and will not be part of a divorce settlement.
Good luck. |
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earanger
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Until you are married DON'T JOINTLY INVEST.
If you break up - who owns what? Who decides? Sounds like a lot of money will go to attorneys.
Do you live in a community property state? If you go with your fiance's plan, kiss your inheritance bye bye. Oh, and in a community property state - your $15K a year will be calculated into child support. [It is here in WA]
So, in answer to your question you SHOULDN'T. |
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laurie
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the fact that you don't feel right about it speaks volumes about him and your relationship. follow your gut, dump him now!! |
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jwood
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marriage is a compromise but only you can say how you feel about him, is he worth it, if you have to ask about dumping him then you have just asnwered your own question.. probably. i have loved my spouse for 37 year. 2 months after our first date he borrowed 1200.00. paid it back a million times over in 37 yrs... but on you can know if yours is worth it.. mine was >:) |
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