Bonnie D
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Sounds like your friends are takers, not givers.
I want to pass this along because it's always worked for me. I never lend money. If someone needs it, and I can afford it, I give it to them. If I can't afford it, I tell them so. Lending money always loses you friends and causes problems with family. Giving money has never hurt me financially and I believe God finds a way to give it back to me when I do this. |
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drankurbhardwaj
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THAT IS YOUR KARMA. A SAINT SAW A SCORPION DROWNING AND HE TRIED TO TAKE IT OUT OF WATER BUT WAS STUNG.HE TRIED MANY TIMES AND THE SCORPION STUNG HIM REPEATEDLY ,HIS DISCIPLE ASKED HIM TO GIVE UP THE SAINT SAID IT IS THE NATURE OF THE SCORPION TO STING SO HE DOES THAT A SAINT'S NATURE IS TO HELP .WHEN THE SCORPION CANNOT CHANGE HIS NATURE HOW CAN I? |
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tamil_sengolan
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You have a helping tendency. And those who have helping tendency must be good person and none to all though you don't perform on stage. So everybody knows u in the time they are in need of money.
Since you hesitate to ask money u may not have found who will give or You are the only one good person in your locality. The above answer is true and it works with me also.
I don't find any helpers when i need one, though i helped a lot even strangers i have helped.
It is always good people face the test of truthness and humanity kept by GOD. And if u pass by continuing ewaht u are you become great in your life.
Continue to be a great soul though others help or not. |
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ThatLady
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Because you hang with the wrong people. Get yourself some new friends that are there for you when you need them to be for a change.
I know how you feel though. Some of us are just always responsible. We attract irresponsible people who feel taken care of when we're around.
And other responsible people are like the "alpha dogs" we rub them wrong because we always seem to be grappling for the top. So we have to give them room and not hang around them so much. This gives room for the hangers on who are always taking from us and not giving anything back. |
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kissybertha
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Maybe you are asking the wrong people, if they are always asking you for money maybe they don't have it. But if the same people that denied you does have the money then remind them of this next time they come to you, tell them no you don't have it and go on your way. |
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shooshoobrat
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GIRL THAT'S BECUZ PEOPLE ARE GREEDY AND SELFISH WITH AND COULD CARE LESS ABOUT WHAT'S UP WIT U BUT THEY MAKE SURE UR #1 WHEN THEIR IN SOME KIND OF MONEY CRISIS. |
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Rachel _happy
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Because they are not the same as you, you are a very kind .... so don't care about that ,if that happens again don't lend them ..... so they will know they are wrong that not lending you money, because you lend them........ |
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Kelvin
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this is my experience too.
dont lend money again.
if you want to give give as a charity.
than you never want to barrow too. |
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ArgumentativeButNotInsulting
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"Neither lender, nor borrower be." |
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Smart Indian
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Looks like you are financially much better than your friends. They don't have enough to lend. |
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AVANISH JI
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this is normal Human Tendency and greed that one wants what he does not have, and for this he does follow any sort of means, U can see several examples in the books and movies. As u r helpful to others and so kind hearted that u lended money to all, but I hope very few have repaid u back, and when u require they dont come to rescue it.
So, its better to take a lesson and help the nedy only after judging that he is really needy or he is greedy.
THANKS |
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Vithur
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Better wait.. U will et it from somebody.. God will not forsake you |
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xeibeg
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This is a problem just about your friends so you should not lend them money cause they only think themselves . |
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heimz69
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hopefully not askin the people you've lent money to because more than likely they were about to ask you again but you came to them on a rare occasion |
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kk s
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It seems that you lack self confidence,to say no,that is why you lend money,and can not get from others |
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dhoom_machao_dhoom
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might be they take advantage of you and try to fool you out.if you wanna contact me cuty_aashna@yahoo.com is my id. And you must be very kind to them. |
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Lynnemarie
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You have a kind and trusting nature and those people don't. |
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mkk_94
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u can tell them dat i m not havin money or u can dare and say them i will not give u money .wen its my turn to take money from u u dont give me. |
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Michael C
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Maybe your a sucker and people know that they can take advantage of you. Can you lend me about 10 grand? |
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