Trasee
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This isn't like buying you necklace. We're talking about a home and you aren't even married. That's a lot to ask of someone!
At most, I think you could mention to him that your landlord is going to sell your apartment and see what your boyfriend says. If he wants to buy it for you and is able to, he will offer with just that being said. If he doesn't offer, find another apartment. |
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Don C
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From a mans point of view: I've been married now for 20 years. But if my wife would of asked me to buy her an apartment The first thing I would of asked is why?. You need to have a very good reason why he should buy this apartment.
1. the investment of any land holdings is up.
2. Buy for the future because of the resale value.
3 Time already invested in the apartment.
4. Shared Community land holdings sometimes doubles or even triples in value.
5. Great Tax write off at the end of each year.
There are 100's of reasons to buy.
Visit with a Investment firm and they could give you a lot more Ideas of why to invest.
Just ask what he thinks of the idea, and then give some of the ideas why. Also if you two are committed to each other I don't think you will have to much of a problem. I know that if my wife had asked me to buy her a home before we were married thats what I would have asked for ,, but then I would have done it no matter what anyways ,, thats what Love dose (LOL)
Hope this helps a little.
Good Luck!! |
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sparman20
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You want it all ways, if he buys it it is his unless he makes it a gift to you. Just ask and see what the answer is.If you don't ask you don't get. |
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missceekay
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Make it a business proposition - He buys it.....and it's ONLY yours once you've paid it off....
Buy it for you...for crying out loud.....what is he, your freaking life support... |
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ßαßε
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You can't make him do anything, you shouldn't have to ask. If he wants to marry you, he'll ask, if he wants to buy you the place, he will. |
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Ellie
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Well have you considered stapling his nuts to the floor and holding a gun to his head- thats how i usually do it! Lol- incredible. Suggest you buy it together!!! |
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da4kinov
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Just believe that will happened and it will. Many times a seid " that's stupid 'belive' ha ha, but in the moments when I try to believe these things were happens", believe in yourself and want that you want very strongly! |
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sharky
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He shouldn't buy it for you unless you two are in a committed relationship, i.e. permanent common law or married.
Maybe he could buy it and allow you to live there, but if I was him there is no way in the world I would buy it and put it in your name. |
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MissDeviance
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That's horrible! I could never do that to a man I loved.
Maybe it's time to consider a career in nude dancing. You will earn a lot of money fast and you can pay for the apartment yourself. Get over your shyness and just do it.
If the apartment is THAT important to you, these are the sacrifices that must be made.
Don't USE your boyfriend. Take personal responsibility and make it happen yourself. You have the means. Use it. |
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infiniteson
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BOOTY! after that (and I mean, right after that) ask him.
When my girlfriend really wants me to do something most likely I would say no to, well...
Its the best time to ask. |
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spadezgurl22
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marry your man and then he would buy it for you. think about it, would u buy him an apartment?? i think thats a big purchase for someone who is not going to be your spouse. |
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deb1975@sbcglobal.net
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It's NOT your boyfriends responsibility to buy you an apartment. Ask your parents or a family member to lend you the money...then get a part time job during nights or weekends to re-pay them. It's not fair for your boyfriend to invest money in this apartment when he does not live there...and what happens if you break up with him??? he would be screwed. There are ways to finance if you're working and have good credit...or ask family |
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Jet
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dont be cheap and get him to thats not fair on him anyway
to demand ur boyfriend buys u an appartment and the name of this question jst says "cheap user" all over it
sorry but it does |
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rabbyt
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That's pretty selfish isn't it- he should spend HIS money to buy YOU a condo?
Why not suggest to him HE buys the condo for himself- unless you are paying for it, it should be under his name. |
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CoMpOsUrE
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You don't. |
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Cactus Jack
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Threaten to tell his wife whats been going on between you. |
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CommonCents
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Ok, so English isn't your first language, I think that you are very clear in what you are asking.
You should find a new place that YOU can afford, even if it isn't in the city. You can have fun decorating the next one.
If HE buys it for you, it won't be yours, it will be his. |
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GIZMO THE CAT
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Just how selfish can a person get. Honey, unless he has the cash to buy the apartment (note correct spelling!) outright, and then signs it over to you, then there is no way that apartment will be yours. If he has to raise a mortgage then its gonna be in his name. Just go ahead and ask him outright, you never know, he might be a stupid, gullible idiot and agree to do this for you, otherwise get packing. |
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fisherwoman
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Why should he buy you an apt? What if your relationship ends, does he get anything from his investment? I say get a second job, save the money and pay your own way. You said he's already helped you many time for this apt. Does that mean he helps pay your rent, or bills? If so, that makes it even easier to say "no". He doesn't owe you anything, and shouldn't buy you the apt. |
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AKHEEL K
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first you should make one best friend after this u have to tell everythinng to him if he become your good friend he will give you mney as borrow |
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mlsmith1980
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Don't you think that question sounds a bit selfish?
There are many ways of standing on your own 2 feet and sorting out the cash yourself, speak to a financial advisor. There are many mortgages out there now for people with adverse credit, I managed to get a mortgage and my credit was pants! |
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Labyrinth
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just ask him. |
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Agent319.007
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Why buy an apartment? Buy living quarters at a hotel, or buy a house, town house, or condominium.
If your boyfriend and you can split it, do it. If you feel you have to get married to this man, do it for the right reasons.
I'm sure Jennifer Lopez would do the same. |
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PM4
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Why should he buy it for you? He would be a fool if he did. |
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barbara
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Should have saved your money instead of going into debt-if your BF buys you that APARTMENT(sp) you will be no better than a whore. |
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shelcom
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Maybe you should learn to stand on your own 2 feet, get a job and learn to spell. Being a gold digger only works for so long. |
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Joe L
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You should probably start packing because you're going to end being out on the street really soon. |
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chloe_saiana
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um... you have to just talk to him about it!
otherwise frankly your a bit of a selfish cow. |
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focus
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Was going to answer this but having read the previous answers it looks as if everything has been said. |
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katysamalfie
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wow i can tell you genuinly truly honostly love this man for him not what he can give you. you sound pathetic. if i were him id leave you as soon as possible and get with someone who isnt going to ask me to BUY HER AN APARTMENT!!!!!!!!sweetheart are you crazy?or just very self centered? grow up |
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DennistheMenace
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put them knee pads on....... |
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