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 Is this a sign of a bad realtor?
My house has been on the market for about 3 weeks. First off, when he came by, he kinda made me feel like my house was crappy, and it aint. But the main thing that is bothering me is that I haven�...


 Why would a 30 yr mortgage loan at a fixed interest rate of 6.25 go up $250 in a month?

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I checked my papers and it is a 30 yr fixed rate loan and when I called them the said it raised because of my taxes. Yes I am escrowing the taxes. I still feel like ...


 No Money down Mortgage?
I have sketchy credit score, but the house I am looking at is about 160,000, and I make about 55000 per year. will i be able to get a no money down loan, or will i need a co-borrower with good ...


 My mortgage company wont help me?
I fell behind in my mortgage payments and am now facing forclosure. I was advised to contact my mortgage company, they are required to work with me under some new laws. They are continuing with ...


 What am I supposed to do about my landlord? Real help only please no crap.?
I moved to an apartment in the middle of March. Maybe a month later I found out that it had a leaking problem in the kitchen. It is now to the point that it is leaking above my sink and above my ...


 Do we both need to get renter's insurance?
My friend and I are moving into an apartment together. I just wanted to know if we both need to get separate renter's insurance policies, or if one of us can get it and the other's ...


 I am buying my first home. This home is a bank foreclosed home.?
I'm buying it for 153,000.00. On 7/7/06 it sold for 303,000.00. The house is in excellent shape and it is fairly new. It was built in 2000. Does this mean I'm getting a deal?...


 To landlords: do you enjoy screwing people?
I find that a lot of you are scummy, bottom-dwellings monsters, liars, cheats, robbers, and just the **** of the earth....


 Should i live in a hotel?
i think it wold be cool to live in a hotel.
something like in the movie eloise in the plaza
some people were living in the hotel.
i love staying in hotels because it gives the nice ...


 Does my landlord have the right to forbid the installation of a/c units?however i pay my own electric bills.?
the contract doesnt display any restrictions to air conditioner. but it includes "no damage" in his house property. would installing hose be destroying his property?...


 Zillow.com home estimation is it accurate?
Anyone ever go to zillow.com and typed in your address and it shows you how much your property is worth. Is this pretty accurate? I got my propert inspected 3 months ago it was worth 148,000 zilla ...


 Can I sell a House that I bought just 6 mos. ago?
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 What to do with my council flat?
I have a council flat. But i want to live with other students while at university and possibly do a placement abroad for a few months if i can. I feel tied to it and you arnt allowed to sub let even ...


 Can I leave an apartment before my lease is up?
I am able to forfeit my security ...


 Is real estate a good career to get in for a 20 year old??
I am debating on whether to continue taking classes toward my major or take real estate classes and try to join a real estate company...what is the market looking like right now, and would I be able ...


 How much would it cost to buy land next to the ocean?
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 Per the news, the housing market may drop 20%-30% in 2008. Wait for prices to drop or buy now?
Reuters, Yahoo. News, local ...


 When doing a for sale by owner what percentage should a realtor receive...?
if they bring you a perspective buyer? What are the pros and cons of working with realtors who bring you buyers?
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I am experienced with home selling, for my situation a ...


 How do you legally evict someone from a property when there is no rental agreement and they don't pay rent?
We are in Tennessee. When my husband and his exwife got divorced he moved in to another house. The house they were living in together belongs to his grandfather but is on my husbands property. When ...


 Can I legally put someone out of my house if they've been staying with me?
I allowed a loser to move in with me because they needed a place to stay. It was not for free, he agreed to help me with bills and rent. However, he quit his job, and is now expecting me to take care ...



Shabby 3
How much rent should one pay a boyfriend who owns his house and makes 3 times as much as her?
My sisters boyfriend just bought a house. She has not had any decision making abilities and no say so in any of the shopping, buying, decorating, etc. of the purchase of the house and everything in it. He asked her to move in with him. They both have steady jobs but he makes about 3 times more than she does. How should they handle the bills, including mortgage, groceries, utilities, etc.?
                     
 




Adam S
Obviously, this will depend on the couple, and whatever kind of agreement they wish to make.

For me, personally, I would say that, if he earns three times as much money, he should pay three times as much as she does.

For example, if he puts $3000 a month into their shared expenses, than she should put $1000.

As for paying "rent" to her boyfriend, that sounds a little odd. I personally think it should be more of a partnership. If it is a shared expense, they both pay a certain amount according to their income. Since they are partners, and not roommates, it should not be 50-50, but rather each according to what they can afford to bring to the partnership (in my opinion, at least).

If there are serious financial issues between them, they could always draft a Cohabitation Agreement (sometimes called a Common Law Partner Agreement). This would allow them to outline in writing what each of their rights and obligations will be in the relationship (as well as what they will be if the relationship ends).


GEEGEE
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Maybe she can pay a percentage of her income- traditionally 25% of a person's salary should go towards housing expenses. If it's only the two of them, I'd say split the other stuff down the middle- with the exception of "special" food items that one of them indulges in and the other not (say beer, or whatever). I'd say it sounds like her BF is a micro-manager and perhaps a bit of a bully, so it may be wise for her to keep her finances seperate, to make a hasty retreat if things don't work out.


teran_realtor
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As long as there are cows that give free milk, there will be dogs that lap it up.


david o
'Never,Never,Never enter into a verbal agreement with a "boyfriend,significant other,parents,in laws,children".In this case she should sign a rental agreement-legally binding-that spells out exactly what her obligations are,her access to amenities,etc.etc.All to frequently the first taste of love(or the second or third)results in the first taste of bitterness(or the second or third). A commitment is not made over drinks,while sharing a pillow or in casual conversation.It's serious business.


wwhrd
Ew. No say so in anything? If he's making the mortgage payments, was it on his credit alone that he got the loan? If he is financially able to buy a house and wants her to live there I don't think she should pay a dime. Unless my name is on the mortgage and I get to help with the decisions, I'd be an overnight guest once a week. Forget moving in 100%.

If he can afford to do it on his own, then maybe he should live alone. I think he wants her to be the housekeeper and keep him warm at night, otherwise he's have included her in the decision making process.

I wouldn't live with him until he (a) puts ring on my finger (2) put my name of the deed to the house (3) decides who is going to do his cooking, cleaning and laundry if I didn't move in.

If this guy is going from living with his Mama to buying this house, he's just expecting her to do the "woman's work." Been there, done that, hated it.


Ken
If he asked her to move in, shouldn't he pay the mortgage? She should bank her money and, if they get married, she can buy into the house. If they break up, she will have money to get a house of her own. Otherwise she is just contributing to his future financial well being with someone else if they break up.


frankie b
She should pay fair market value for the rent. If he makes 50 times more the rent price should be the same unless he wants to give her a break.


A W
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Oooh, tell her not to do it! If her options are paying rent for her own place, versus paying her bf rent to stay with him, in all cases I'd say pay the rent for your own place!!!! Why be out the money and helping the bf pay for his house, when at any moment he could give her the boot and she'd be homeless? He would have just been using her! Have her keep her own place no matter what, until they get married. Then the house should be put in her name too and they can figure out finances. But she'll completely lose her independence if she moves in. BAD IDEA.


Judy1
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That's between them - whatever they agree on.


Sharon S
It is up to them to make an agreement. Have her go over her bills and finance available and what she can afford.


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