Computer Guy
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Evictions are difficult. You may be able to bluff. Send him a registered letter telling him he must leave the property within 30 days. Show up in 30 days and tell him you will call the police if he doesn't leave. If he refuses to leave, then you have troubles. You could try having him arrested as a tresspasser. I don't know if the police will arrest him, though.
If things get tough, you will have to talk to a lawyer. |
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tone
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You must evict him and follow the proper channels. Call your local county and ask for eviction procedure and forms and start the ball rolling. |
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Next On Line!!
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Well move in back ( since it is your house) then tell him to find somewhere else to go explaining the reasons. If he refuses, then go to a lawyer or get some other legal help. luck. |
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Estrato Seis
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Id talk to him first. Then if he balks, You will have to evict him. Its ugly and it takes 2 months usually. Id go talk to your local sheriff. Be prepared to have him be mad, hurt and do damage to your house.. Freeloaders work that way.. somehow YOU owe them. |
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Why ask me?
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You will need to legally evict him. Go to the county court clerk wherever you live and ask them how to proceed. |
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go2bermuda
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Tell him calmly that you need your house. If necessary, you can contact the police, but only if he refuses to move out. |
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Tufty M
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I'm afraid I don't know the legal situation where you are. Attitutudes to 'common law' partners vary. Ifs and buts don't help, but as you don't live there, too I am surprised you have nothing in writing! If you lived there it'd be change locks, pack, etc.
If he has stopped paying you then he is a defaulting tenant, but as you never had a tenancy drawn up I'm not sure if you can use that line. If you reckon you can then give him notice. He can't be expecting to scrounge off you forever.
I take it you have asked him to leave? Presumably he isn't going to want to live with you if you move back in?
I suspect you may need to get your foot back through the door before further action and you probably will need a lawyer. The ages of his children may be relevant too. |
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starbrite.
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Send him a letter notarized stating your full name
address.demand him to vacate and take only his
property.OR go to legal aid and have them
handle it. Therese no$ involved.
If you give him 15 days and take all your paper work to the Sheriff along and copy of the letter you sent.have him go with you for the evict on.
take you re camera and photograph any and
all damage.after they are gone go back in
and take more pictures. |
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beez
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Put a written notice on his door that he has ex number of days to vacate the premises or face eviction process. Since he hasn't bothered to pay rent, he'll probably ignore this. then you'll have to go to the sheriff's department and get an order of eviction. If he ignores that, they will see that he's off the property. This is not an expensive process. And please realize it is not you who is in the wrong and not the one who has been disrespectful. This is your property. It is your right not to have him and his kids occupy the place. |
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Elana
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Since it is your house and there is no lease, you can simply put all his stuff out on the curb and change the locks. If he never leaves the house, you could simply call the police and have him charged with "trespassing."
Being a human being, I don't imagine he will take kindly to coming "home" to that without warning, so I would give him notice that you are planning on bringing in paying tenants after such & such a date and that without a lease he should consider this a notice of eviction for unlawful tenancy.
It doesn't matter if YOU are the new tenant.
However, you'd best do so quickly, because the longer they are there, the more rights they have (ever heard the term "squatters' rights"?). If he's been there long enough, you may end up having to give him 30 to 90 days eviction time.
Obviously, its a bad idea to enter into this kind of significant financial relationship with somebody (even if he is your lover) without paperwork. |
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cindy_cee13
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call a lawyer. |
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topgunpilot22
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Tell him you want him out or call the cops to get him out |
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Jerry Kenneth Lease
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If there is no lease and no documents were signed move back into the house with him still living there , change your mail back to the house and tell him to move out and if he refuses call the police and tell them to evict him . You don't have to support any one why let the bum stay there to begin with ? If that dont work have some one losen a water pipe call the health dept. have the bldg condemed then get him out then fix it up. |
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tony r
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by a case of beer & invite some biker mates to camp there .sounds like he is basicly a squatter ,if not on lease or paying rent,why is he still there?Careful even squatters have legal rights,if they have nowhere else to go |
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Spock (rhp)
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google will find the laws in your state/province/country.
you have an implied lease in that he is supposed to give you "some money" every month. A lawyer would argue that he therefore has an implied lease on a month-to-month basis at the minimum terms set by the law in your location.
you'll likely need to sent him a notice terminating the lease/his occupancy with a 30 day deadline. My thought is you'll not be able to start eviction until after that, UNLESS he has breached the implicit lease by not paying you anything in the past month. THEN you can probably start eviction procedings immediately -- AND you need to know how to prevent him from curing the breach by paying you and then being able to claim another 30 days [LIKELY you'll need to refuse to accept any money -- see the law].
GL |
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ACE™
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call the cops. |
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sell the house , get out of that mess and be on guard for it not to happen again. |
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kellie
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contact your local courthouse and they should be able to tell you what to do, If you are really wanting him out, maybe you could help find him and new place and help set things up for him, I know you should not have to but it might work, if he doesnt feel like he has to go out and do it all himself, maybe he will be motivated to go, I would not let this continue because the longer you let it go the harder it will be to get him out, if the house is yours you are legally in the right, and it may get a little nasty but it CAN be done, but thats why I suggested helping him relocate, it only will help you in the long run to get your house back! good luck !!!!u can do this!!!! |
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lilcountrync
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Call the police, but I think that since you guys actually lived there together for more than 30 days, he is considered a tenant now. You'll probably have to give him a months notice and follow eviction procedures. |
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Chrys
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if it's YOUR house, why did you move out ???
you should have called the cops or sheriff's dept and moved HIM out. You didn't do yourself a favor and take whats yours...so do it now..call the cops or sheriff's dept and tell THEM what the problem is and get their advice. |
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grandmapattydawn55
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Certified letter...then let the police help you if you need to. He has no right to that house. Take control. Be strong. It doesn't matter if you need to move in or not. It is your house! My mom was going to throw me out of her house that was my home for 15 years because she didn't like HIM. now he is dead and all is in order (whatever that means) as far as the house, it is the rest of my life that sucks. |
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infoministerofiraq
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tell him firmly that he has to go
if he refuses, call the police and they will remove him. if you tell the police he is there without permission, he is trespassing. |
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helprhome
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Check out the link! It is a good one and works all over the country! 30 day notice, then if he doesn't pay, 3 day notice I like to print it out on bright pink paper-makes everyone look at it! Then proceed with eviction. See the link. Good luck! |
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mogethin88
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I would call him and give him a date to move out of my house. Next, On the date I ask him to move out. I will call the sheriff deputy for assistant to my house and make sure that he is out.
Finally, I will serve him the restraining order, and that will make him understand you mean business. |
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prissy
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Check with the local County Clerks office (go there, don't call) to get all of the proper information and forms. Give a simple written explanation to the Clerk, they may or may not need it.
Ask if they have a little info brochure that covers all your questions.
Best of luck to you, it's not going to be easy but you will get through it and be all the more wiser for it in the end. |
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witch hazel
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Have you asked him to leave? If he still refuses, write him a simple letter (no email) asking him to leave. Have it sent by certified mail so that he has to sign for it. Give him 30 days to vacate. If he does not, go to police. Question? Why did you leave your own house. Why didn't he? |
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Weimaraner Mom
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first off if it was your house you should never have moved out and you should have told him he had to move out. An ex, family, or friend will always take advantage of you because you will allow them to. Send him a letter sent certified mail, return receipt requested and tell him he has 30 days in which to vacate from the date he receives the letter. Explain that if after 30 days he has not vacated the house you will legally file eviction paperwork to have him removed from the premises. Without a lease in place he is considered a Tenant at Will, you are allowing him to live there in NC you have to give a guest or roommate or a renter with no lease a 30 notice to vacate you cannot just kick them out.
Do not turn off the electricity or change the locks even though it is your house, do everything legally so he has no recourse to sue you for wrongful eviction.
It should not cost you much money to file eviction paper work with the courts, maybe $100 or a little more. Unfortunately you might want to give him until January to vacate because you'd hate to kick him and his two kids out around Christmas. |
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quay quay
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just tell him he has to go bt give him 3 weeks to find a place |
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mary h
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I had the same exact problem recently.
cops cant do nothin so dont bother- he is a legal resident - just like a tenant, it dont mater that you were involved- or for how long, nor does it matter what kind of arrangement you had.
you will have to legally evict him- in th process of doing so - let me give you a few tips.
send him a certified letter requesting that he leave immediately due to - whatever reasons stated, also make sure you leave a contact phone number and address on that letter along with a demanded response date -give him a few days to let you know his intentions but not much longer. Save your receipts for sending the letter as proof it was sent, hopefully he will agree to move in a reasonable time of about a month or so. If he agrees - get it in writing ASAP, then take your contract with him to leave along with certified letter down to the superior court- and file a eviction, only costs about $30 to represent yourself pro-se. You need to file for a eviction because without - there is nothing saying he ever agreed to leave, if everything goes well and he finds a place you may never need to follow through with court proceedings- but if he somehow gets "stuck" there - you will be glad you already started with court because it can be a month wait just for a court case. Presentled all the information and without a lease - he should be told by the judge to leave- although he maybe given a month or 2 to find a place (longer with the kids there). But it is only right that he be given time to find a new place to live , as it is right that you be given back your houses ASAP, so sadly you do have to follow through with a eviction- it should work out in the end. |
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goz1111
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since he has established residency, you will have to evict like a landlord tenant situation
in general you can move on two fronts, first give notice 30 day of intent to terminate the verbal ease, also at same time move for non-payment of rent, now you have problems with this
since its verbal and does not sound like you two agreed on exact amount, but at the same time does not mean he can stay for free, but this is quickies way to get him out, but you may not have enough documentation for this motion, thus the notice to end the lease is longer but will work |
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100% Organic Snark™
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Call the police and tell them he's trespassing. |
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