 My boyfriend is thinking about taking out a mortgage......? |
| I am personally in the middle of a bankruptcy, so I know I would not be able to get on the mortgage. However, I am going to help pay for it because we know we will be spending our lives together. Is ... |
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 When searching for flats, what does PCM next the the price mean? ex. £5,416 (pcm)? |
| I'm using online agencies to find an apartment in London, and some use the p/wk price, while others are listing "PCM." What did this mean?... |
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 Our tenant just informed us that he is moving out a month before his lease is up...? |
| and he wants to know if he will be getting his security deposit back? My husband wants to tell him "no" because we're going to be out a months rent! What do you think?... |
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 I have a noisy neighbor who won't quiet down, what can I do? |
| I have a upstairs neighrbor who at night. usally 12am - 3am, makes so much noise i can't sleep. I've lived in m rental unit for two years, she just moved in two months ago. I've ... |
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 I have no kids and barely enough money to pay rent, bills etc, where can i get help? |
| I live in Delaware. I have no kids and I am not disabled. The job that I have is basically minimuim wage, i have been working it for 7 yrs. By the time I pay my rent, utilities,gas,insurance I have ... |
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 My neighbor's smoking is killing me!!!! Manager do nothing!!!? |
I live in an apartment building;This week a new neighbor moved next door.
Someone in there smokes. A LOT.
Smoke makes me sick (I am allergic to it) and I am feeling every time ... |
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 Where 2 get $2500 immediately for rent? |
| today i got an letter 4 redempition for an apartment ...n the bill is 2500 thats need 2 be payed by the 5th of december...or we will be evicted....n i hve bad credit..n i need the money cause we have ... |
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 Food costs a month? |
| I've never lived on my own but this summer me and my bf are gunna rent a studio apartment in cali and I was just wondering how much peope would think food costs would be monthly for two people ... |
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 How much rent do you pay? |
| I pay $900 a month for a one bedroom apartment in California. It's not even that nice, the kitchen is really old and there is no diswasher or washer/dryer. I would like to move but it is ... |
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 Should we allow more houses to be built in the u.k? |
it would solve most of our problems. e.g. high house prices
it will help lots of young people but it will impovish many baby boomers.... |
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 Evict or not? |
| I have a tenant who is suppose to have 3 people in her 1 bedroom apartment. Come to find out she has 7-8 people. I pay water, sewerage, garbage. I sent her a letter explaining to her that she is ... |
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 How can you rent a home or apt w/ bad or no credit? |
| I don't have any real credit history. I got a denial letter from a credit card place that said, "Lack of credit history" and "lack of revolving accounts". How can I rent a ... |
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 Can my roommate prevent me from having overnight guests? |
| I live in a two-bedroom apartment with one roommate. As my boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, the only way we see each other is to spend weekends together. We would like to ... |
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| What is 7% of $150,000.? |
| We are thinking of selling our home, my husband isn't home right now, and I am horrible at math. I was just looking over the contract and it says the company gets 7%. Is that pretty good? T... |
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 Having a hard time understand 'rent in advance' pls explain? |
im getting my first place and they ask for a deposit sum and a months rent in advance. and then after ive lived there 4 weeks they want my first months rent.
i do not understand this. how come ... |
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 I am not going to pay then rent. What will happen? |
I am moving out at then end of the month but landlord wants me to pay the next two months rent.
I refuse to pay this, what can they do ? (you cant go to prison for not paying the rent can ... |
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 Can you rent a flat at 16 ? |
can you rent a plat when ur 16 ?
i really dont get on with my mum and shes told me she wants me to move out so i want to know if its possible to rent a flat at 16... |
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Tracy L | Is it normal to cook for my boyfriend every night if we live together? |
We live together, he takes care of my 3 homes maintance & grass, and I cook just about every night, and sometimes even for his friends-but heck when I cook for his friends, he has to clean the mess and I get a 30 min massage. Is this ok |
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Love
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Yeah it seems fair. |
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Proud Liberal
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Of course not! Who ever heard of a woman cooking dinner for a man every night? There are urban legends out there that allude to this bizarre practice, but I doubt that it ever occurred. |
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sweetgurl13069
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If you enjoy cooking and you are happy with the arrangement and so isn't he, you don't need anyone's approval. |
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marklemoore
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It sounds equal enough to me. But what matters in a relationship is if it's okay with you and the other person. Each couple is different because the two individuals that make them up is going to be different. |
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ayeshakabir
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Of course it is ok. You boyfriend seem pretty balanced. And life shouldn't be spent in measuring about how much each partner is doing, etc. Just chill, enjoy. |
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Derrick L
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Having someone cook for you every night sounds great but I would have to say this does not sound "normal" to me. This seems more like a business agreement. He does the maintenance on your 3 homes and you cook for him every night. Seem like a fair deal but certainly not "normal". |
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Kevin H
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I guess I'm still stuck in the old school but I remember when not to cook for your man every night was considered abnormal. Men did their part and women did theirs. Neither looked at their part as duty but because they knew their partner appreciated them and respected each others roles in their relationship. My question to you is why are you asking this in a real estate forum ? |
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Becky F
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Your question is "is it normal" ...No, it's not normal in today's society. You are one of the unique ones. I just hope your boyfriend deserves you. |
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Red Devil
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That's a bit shite,he should massage you every night regardless of what he or you do.By the way ,i'm a male frome the UK |
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Freddie
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It's okay if you say it is okay. You have to decide for yourself if you are comfortable with the arrangement based on your understanding of the roles in a relationship. For example, if you hate to cook, but you don't mind mowing the grass, then I would say you have the wrong arrangement. However, if you don't mind the cooking, and you receive some help on the clean-up, then I think you aren't doing too badly in the deal. |
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AZKludgeQueen
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As long as you both think it's fair, it's fine. If you want him to cook part of the time, offer to take up one of his chores in exchange. |
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adaptsf
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you got to keep your man happy and sounds to me like he's taking care of properties which would cost you a hell of alot more than an hour or so in the kitchen to take care of if you had to hire a property manager. |
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neurotic41
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I think that you got it going on!!! Girlfriend. |
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dukalink6000
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No, it is not, but it's not like he'll tell you of that |
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T J
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Aww, that is so sweet of you. I wish I had the motivation to actually cook every night. |
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yessireee
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Normal is not the issue. If you are happy with the arrangement then that is all that matters. You are cooking not because you have to, but becuase you want to do something in return or you just enjoy cooking, then that's fine. Wow, to not have to clean up the mess is a big plus, I think! See, it's what works for you. Don't worry about "normal". |
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Shrimp Tempura
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if you think it's OK then it's OK, but that sounds slightly unfair to me |
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cork
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whatever.. |
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