He was mad that his one ex moved them an hour from where he was. When he moved here all he did was complain, my son didnt go to bed on time, my daughter was a smart mouth and to noisey, he complained about the cap not being on tight enough, he complained about every little thing. He started demanding that I change or he would leave. I know that some things can be irritating, but it was hardly unbearable. He seemed to have strong mood swings and signs of depression. I love him very much and decided I would try and work with him, but all I got was resistence. Things got progressively worse. We fought constantly. I began to fear him, but Im not strong enough to leave. He became increasingly demanding and critical.I went on several visits with him to see his kids and had a good time, and sometimes a bad time. When my son would go he would be unfair to my son by calling him a baby everytime he wanted something, but not his kids, even my son said, "why does he yell at me for things he doesnt yell at his own kids for", but of course, my boyfriend didnt see it that way and would deny doing it, After a 1 year and 1/2 we are strongly on our way out, He has called me names, never went with me andmy son to a park, or did anything with my son, and now he wants me to go on a visit with his kids, what would you do?
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Thank you all for your support. I didnt mean to make it sound like I was unsupportive of him seeing his, OMG on the contrary., I would never get in his way of that, and have never although he has made comments to me about me being with my son when he wanted my time. Sometimes with kids you cant predict what they need, he thought it was like clock work. I feel that if you raise your kids like by the clock, you lose the humanity, again what do you think?