This story is just to give you all an idea of why i am asking this question but if you don't want to read it just scroll all the way down to the question but you will be very interested in my story I promise you...
My step mom makes a lot of money and my dad makes a below average amount. I would be able to go to college for free with the financial aid that I would receive if my dad wasn't married to this monster.
My step mom makes me pay for everything. She acts like everyone should be like her because she makes 120K a year and my dad makes around 40K a year. She always tells me "look at my life compared to your dads thats why you should go to college!" Now, my dad has many friends and everyone loves my dad but he is losing all of his friends because of my step mom. She is very demanding and thinks that everything she does is the best thing in the world so when someone tries to tell her a story about what they did this weekend she'll have the balls to tell them that if they weren't poor they would be able to enjoy life like she does. She is very bland and fat and looks like peter griffin. She loves to belittle people and make them feel they are the size of a piece of rice.
I'm in college and when I come home to visit I even have to buy my own water and food. When my dad gives me a couple bucks which I don't even ask for she gets mad at him. She is always eating out and playing golf and wasting money on stupid weight watcher products and services which don't even work for her at all. She buys fancy water with bubbles in it and really throws her money wherever she wants to spend it. The other day she asked me if I could pick up a list of alcoholic drinks she wrote for me. I went to a store and bought them. When I gave her the receipt back she flipped out because I went to "the wrong liquor store" and I could have saved 5 or 10 dollars if I had gone to the one she usually goes to, and if I would have called and asked her first (which she didn't say for me to do) this problem would have never happened. Then she starts saying "I should have known better than to give you a simple task that I knew you would never be able to complete something so simple correctly. You're just never going to do anything right there is always a problem with you." She threw a tantrum and looked like such a stupid penny pincher and my dad told her to stop making such a big deal all I did was keep my mouth shut because I've learned to keep my mouth shut when a woman, like her especially, is angry because you can never win. She then randomly started shouting out "We'll see how you do in the Air Force with that attitude and respect that you have. I really don't think you're going to make it in the Air Force you never do anything right"(at this point I was laughing in my head because this whole time i haven't even said one word). Now..... I am currently going to the air force and I have some college credits so I will be going in at a level where I have more responsibility better pay and more respect. I have always worked my whole life and worked hard. I never ask for much and everyone is always telling me how responsible I am. I love life and always try to make the best of it just like my dad. I like to have fun and laugh but when I need to be serious trust me I am very dedicated and serious. Now I took some student loans out for college and obviously I have to pay them back once school is over. I've taken over 3 loans out in my life and each one I paid in half the time the loans were out so i'm very responsible about this kind of stuff. This is the worst thing i've ever heard in my life and it really hurt me and dented me inside because I don't think this is something someone should say to anyone specially when they are trying so hard and not even trying but succeeding so much.
-step mom- "You know that if you die in the air force or something happens to you where you can't pay back your loans your dad still has to pay them for you which is very irresponsible about you leaving your dad with such responsibility all because you want to go to the air force"
-me- I understand but i'm sure that if I died in the Air Force that would be the least of his worries but thanks for supporting me so much.
-step mom-I just wanted to let you know since you don't care about your consequences ever and are so irresponsible about everything that I just wanted to make sure you knew.
-ME- Actually if anything happens to me once i'm in the Air Force my dad will get a $450,000.00 check because they make sure to give everyone a life insurance policy.
-Step mom- Oh thats great okay (then walks away and goes upstairs).
Now that is really rude and shows that she does not care for me at all and is an extremely fake person. With all of that said you will all now know why I am asking this question because she acts like hav